An Adventure

During my personal consultations I often hear the following words: “When the right one comes along, I’ll be happy!” Oh, really? I have to disappoint you, really disappoint you.

On this magical planet Earth no one can make you happy until you make yourself happy first. I’ve said that numerous times and I’ll say it again because I want you to understand that your happiness lies in your depths. As long as you’re not happy with yourself, you cannot be happy with others. And don’t expect that everything will change after some partner comes into your life. It won’t! If you don’t resonate with what is desired, you’ll manifest empty partners that will only reflect your inner state.

So, stop dreaming about a saviour; instead, start dreaming about yourself and start changing yourself. You’re the problem, not your partner, and remember, you have to work on the relationship. I’ve been working on mine for quite some years and there’s still a lot to be done. A relationship is like a flower and it has to be cultivated and taken care of every day. Each person in a relationship is an individual and, together, they are a whole. First, each one in a relationship has to work on him or herself, only then does the work start! So, don’t expect miracles to happen overnight. Even in fairy tales heroes change and at the end begin to live a happy life – it’s the same with you. Something has to be changed, and you’re the only one who can do this. However, the easiest thing is to say, “I’m waiting for my saviour and then my world will become more beautiful and different”. What you’re actually waiting for is you, the happy you.

You’re waiting for your change. You’re waiting for your inner change. For everything, really everything starts with your decision, with your deep inner decision. Your definition of the things you want. Shift into the phase called “I”. Shift into your magical world and start researching it. Do you truly know yourself or are you only playing the game others expect from you? In such a case, you’re always miserable since you’re living something you’re not, you’re living the life of others.

Start living your truth. I manifest some dreams of mine each and every day and I have fun each and every day. I’ve finally started living myself. And I’ve become happy and satisfied with my life. I see each day as a new adventure. Every day I look at the sky as if I am looking at it for the first time. I feel each kiss as if it’s the first one. I take each adventure as if it were my first one. Try it, it’s possible. Just surrender to your feelings and be in the magnificent moment – now – and you’ll experience joy and happiness. Imagine that you are doing everything for the first time. These are amazing feelings. I assure you! Today again I feel like I’m writing my column for the first time. These are exciting feelings. It’s all a game, a big game, and you should play one that has a happy ending. Have fun, laugh, sing, and jump. Be playful like a child, fulfilling all your dreams. When you don’t feel or don’t know, go to the playground, sit down and watch the kids. Watch their joy and happiness. Watch yourself! We can be big children in every single moment. Children have unconditional love inside and are not waiting for a saviour. They’re waiting for a new adventure.

Author: Maya D.